I hear it all the time…my life is hard, I wish it wasn’t t like this, I don’t know how I’m related to my family, we are so different etc etc.
I get it. I know….it can be really hard to be human.
But it can also be really beautiful as well when we can understand that many things are planned before hand….
Let me explain….
We have A LOT of free will in this lifetime.
Thank God for that.
We get to choose how we show up daily. We get to choose what kind of job we are going to do to express our talents. We get to choose who we want to be with (most of the time.. 😉
And so much more.
So the point is we do have a lot of free will. We were given this gift so we can get the lessons we need to get.
Can you imagine if we came here and everything was completely set in stone and we had no say?
What would be the point?
We come to earth to Evolve. To Grow. To balance karma. To have experiences. To feel our feelings.
If everything was completely set in stone then we would be robots moving through life.
However, we also have deep soul contracts that we can’t get out of because they are for our highest good even if it doesn’t feel like that at the time.
Before we are born we decide on the main lesson(s) that we are here to experience.
We decide on our parents/family as they are going to help guide us to achieve our lessons set out before we incarnated.
There are certain experiences/people that we are not getting out of in this lifetime because they are included in our soul contract.
I know sometimes life can feel rough and that we experience certain circumstances that seem unfair.
I get that. Life can be unfair at times but this is what I want you to understand, there is NOTHING that you are going through that your higher self/spirit knows that you can’t get through.
Every experience that you’re going through is “designed”, either based on your subconscious behaviors or on your soul contract, to provide you with the lessons that your soul needs in order to continue growing in this lifetime.
When you can understand that you can take a step back, pause, breathe, and know that you are always protected, you are not alone and you are stronger than you think!
Mantra: I am stronger than this. I will not let it break me.